That truly depends on who you are asking. There are so many people who strongly hate dating apps, while others have no reservations about letting these apps play a crucial role in their love lives.

Before trying Bumble or other dating apps for the first time, I came with my own set of reservations. Primarily, it was about the absence of exclusivity on the app. This has a lot to do with investing emotionally in a person who will not be able to offer us exclusivity.

There’s no way around this, I suppose – it is just how dating apps work.

So, whether you are new to swipes and matches or a veteran who has used multiple dating apps, my list of pros and cons can help you understand whether dating apps are worth your time and energy.

Stay tuned.

Are Dating Apps Worth It? The Pros:

So, the best way to answer this question is to check out the blatant advantages of being on a dating app. And as promised, I’ve delved deep into the many benefits of being on a dating app in detail:

1. Great For Your Content:

We are all human, and needing some validation from time to time is completely normal. On that note, I am going to be very honest. When you check your inbox and find dozens of messages and matches from people you find very attractive but thought were out of your league, it feels great.

In fact, for me, this strokes my ego, and I feel very validated. In addition, it is even better if someone really attractive initiates contact, engaging enthusiastically during the conversation.

When that excitement ends up trickling to a date the next weekend and sparks fly, it feels even better.

Do you know by? Because you will inevitably feel like you are so good at this whole thing. Also, this works better if you have been feeling somewhat low. So, instead, just stay at it and keep the momentum going.

2. It’s An Experience Of A Lifetime:

There just aren’t enough dating blogs, seminars, videos, or even books that can replace any real-life experience. Moreover, these media can barely even scratch or even do any justice to the actual depths of any authentic connection.

Even when a match comes in slowly, and your dates turn out to be underwhelming, there is still a valuable lesson that you can obtain from the entire experience.

Believe me on this one – with every date, you will gain some solid confidence and learn some tactics that you will benefit from in the future.

3. There’s No Mistake When It Comes To Initial Interest:

If you have matched with someone, there is no doubt that your match was interested initially in exploring a potential romantic connection between the two of you.

So, when you meet someone IRL (in real life), it might get easy to mistake their attention and kindness for interest – and this, in turn, can lead to an awkward misunderstanding. But on a dating app, this kind of uncertainty is eliminated.

As a result, whether someone liked your profile, your answers to the different prompts, or your pictures, they ultimately decided to swipe you right. This single act puts your profile under the ‘yes’ category!

4. You Can Actually Meet Someone Special:

This doesn’t need much explanation. If you are on a dating app to meet someone special, then you might be a few swipes away from finding your true love.

There’s so much chatter from so many people about how it is impossible to meet someone special on a dating app.

I thought the same till I met my golden retriever boyfriend on Tinder. So, just drown all that noise and go see for yourself – just because it didn’t work for someone, doesn’t mean it will not work for you.

Are Dating Apps Worth It? The Cons:

Of course, dating apps come with their own potential risks. And on that note, I’ve delved deep into the potential risks of using dating apps in detail:

1. Dating Can Get Overwhelming:

It is expected that you will always be your best self on a date, whether it is about looking beautiful, appearing charming, or being funny.

Moreover, if both of you vibe, you are expected to keep the momentum going.

Now, while it seems easy, in reality, it can make things worse. I mean, dressing up for a man who might not call me back every other weekend can get tiring after a point.

Naturally, dating can get very overwhelming, especially for people who are looking for something serious.

2. Dating Apps Might Feed Your Insecurity:

I did say that dating apps are great for building someone’s confidence. But at the same time, the opposite is also applicable.

When you have no matches on the app, it can start making you feel undesirable, which is not good for your confidence – it might make you feel like you lack something that others have.

And once this happens, intrusive and false thoughts begin to slither inside your mind. This, in turn, feeds your insecurities and makes you underconfident.

3. Dating Can Get Expensive:

I’m all about equality and paying on dates. Moreover, I don’t mind if either of us pays, especially if we really like each other. But having said that, stepping out on dates with different people in a month can get expensive – because first dates are always about making a solid impression.

For instance, if you have to go on two dates in one week and spend $150 on each date, then you will end up spending $1200 on dates by the end of the month. And that’s a lot of money to spend on dates, especially when you are seeking a new partner.

4. It Can Ruin Your Ability To Solve Issues In Relationships:

One of the worst problems with dating apps is that they teach you to let go of relationships and people too easily.

I mean, you start thinking that if someone isn’t able to give you what you are looking for, there are options.

The problem with this thought? We all have flaws, and we are imperfect.

Of course, you will have problems with a potential romantic connection – but that doesn’t mean you will let them go. Sure, others are waiting in the queue, but are all of them right for you? Not really.

Are Dating Apps Worth It? My Two Cents

So, taking into account the pros and cons of dating apps, what’s the final verdict? A.K.A My two cents? It is a BIG yes – why? Because you should give these apps a shot.

Of course, like most things in life, these apps also come with some risks, but that should never stop you from eliminating them entirely from your lives. I encourage everyone, no matter your physical appearance or financial status, to give these apps a shot.

You are going to spend a lot of money, face rejections, and even see your date from last weekend marrying someone else next month. But the basic possibility of meeting someone special is so much more rewarding if it all works out.

As a result, it is worth the risks and problems – trust me on this one! On that note, happy swiping, everyone!